Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Less is More

We've been undergoing a transformation around here.  It all started with the idea that every. single. thing. we own ought to have a place.  Like, a designated spot where it belongs.  And I'm not talking 'it goes in the junk drawer' or 'toss that in the linen closet'.  I'm talking this-is-exactly-where-this-thing-belongs.

At first, I thought we mostly had that covered.  Boy, oh boy, was I wrong.  The deeper we delve into the project, the more I realize just how much crap we've accumulated in roughly 5.5 years of wedded bliss.  I try to think of simpler times; when we lived in our 500 square foot apartment with one teeny-tiny storage closet.  Then I remember that back then we did not have children or a home business.  Still, though, we have too. much. stuff.

And that's what it is:  stuff.  Junk.  Things we're just never going to use.  And we're not even the hang-on-to-this-'cause-we-might-need-it-in-25-years types.  We're pretty open to just tossing, selling, or donating.  But still, somehow, we have junk in this house.

I think it started when we purchased this 1,000 square foot mansion.  Believe me, when you double your living quarters, it sure feels like a mansion.  Back then, we had a spare room (aka:  dump anything and everything in there and just shut the door) and an office, but sans home-based business.  Talk about space.
Our home, circa 2006.

Well, when you have space, you just fill it, you know?  Boy, do we know.  We are really good at filling space.  And we have generous families.  They gave us new furniture as gifts and really great used furniture they were done with.  Pretty soon, we had tons of furniture.  Nice furniture.  Furniture that traditionally, we'd hang on to until we're dead and then our kids would have to deal with it.  These pictures make us look like hoarders or something.  We're not!  We started as fairly organized people, I swear.

The garage in Phase 1.
Enter my new philosophy:  less is more.  Let's keep less things so that they mean more to us.  It's radical, it really is.  I've been working on this since January, and I'm barely scratching the surface.  Case in point:  I've made it my goal to go through my house and fill one {giant} bag to take to Goodwill or sell on Craigslist (mostly Goodwill....I don't have time to mess with Craigslist!).  Every day.  Every single day I do that.  And guess what?  I haven't missed anything yet!  Is that not sick?
The office, right before I filled 5 (yes, 5) garbage bags full of stuff we don't have anymore.
This new approach to living has caused some major changes around here.  I'll post the improvements to each room.  I'm super excited about the way things are starting to look and feel.  I came across this phrase from the Lucky Shopping Manual, and I think it captures what I'm hoping to achieve:  If a piece doesn’t work, look at it this way: You paid for it once in cash, and now you’re paying for it in valuable closet space. If it’s not right for you, bite the bullet and let it go.

So we're letting it go.  And guess what we've found?  We have a home that is totally big enough for us, with plenty of storage.  We're organized, we're happy, and our home feels calm and inviting.


Less really is more.

6 comments:

Aimee said...

Your post reminded me of a book I just read that is fabulous called "The Not So Big House". Have you read it? It is so good I am starting "The Not So Big Life" by the same author. A friend of mine posted about the same thing here: http://www.vanessachristenson.com/2010/07/get-crap-out-of-my-house-challenge.html

I am doing something similar of getting rid of junk and making my apartment more me (since we are going to be here awhile more).

Congratulations on what you've done and good luck!

Shanna said...

Man I feel so motivated now!! I wish you had motivated me like this a few months ago! That is so awesome. It does feel nice to reclaim space that was once yours. Way to go!

Anonymous said...

we are very streamlined over here. always have been, always will be. i have NEVER understood the appeal of "stuff."

Leslie said...

Abbey, you need to post pictures of your house... on the inside. We live in a 1200 sq ft apartment and I am losing my mind trying to fit our stuff in. Do you have a basement?

Abbey said...

Leslie, I would commit a serious felony to have a basement. I really would. I'll have to get some pics up of our 'creative' storage system.

Emmy said...

I love this post, Ab. I feel really strongly about a clean, sparse house - it feels better to me. But, I DO NOT JUDGE others. . .I really could care less about anyone's house looks like, but mine. Because I am in charge of the feeling in my home, not in others' homes. I say this because I read blogs that always talk about how the best moms are the ones with the dirtiest houses. .. and, I suppose I am venting here. . .but, really? I suppose I understand what they think they're saying: Moms who are so busy playing with their children don't have time to clean. But, I will simply disagree. I guess I take that a little personal because I try so hard to keep my house clean so that there is a atmosphere of order and love. IT'S NOT PERFECT by any means. But, I try so hard. And, I play with my well-adjusted children who cherish me, their father, each other and God. . and, I shouldn't feel guilty about this. Thanks for providing me a platform to vent. :) Good luck on your home! I am in the same process here and it's occasionally overwhelming, but one bag a day is a great idea! thanks!